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I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and we are both very,very much in love.However , we can't spend all day together now because my girlfriend started her studies.Every day she spends 5 ours at university.It's very hard for me.I know I have to give her some breathing space,some freedom.But I can't .It's so hard.Please help me! What's Tom's problem? He is very selfish.What should Tom do? He should try to find a way to spend hiz free time.